Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Brotherly Love

As a wedding coordinator for the Bald Head Island Club, you can assume I've seen my fair share of weddings. And you'd probably think I'd be immune to the emotions that can take over seeing a beautiful couple celebrating their union with all the people they hold nearest and dearest.

You would think so, but you'd be wrong - about the emotions part. At least that was the case when Alyssa & Chris arrived to the club, post wedding ceremony and ready to celebrate. Everything was all fine and dandy until Alyssa's brother/Man of Honor/Official toast-giver/Meany who made me tear up - stood up and asked everyone to raise their glasses in honor of his sister and now, brother in-law. I'm a sucker for a man who can express his feelings and he did just that. It was an amazing speech from a proud brother for his beautiful sister. He spoke of the imense pride he felt for having Alyssa as a sister and how lucky Chris and Alyssa both were for finding one another. And if I'm not mistaken, I think he had something to do with that.



In any case, it was a beautiful reception for two beautiful people, Alyssa and Chris. And PS - the rest of their family and friends - ALL AMAZING. I felt like I was at one of my family get-togethers. All of their guests were so friendly and genunie and just downright good people.

I loved this group and I am so happy that I am able to share some images from the wonderfully talented Rachel Barker of Millie Holloman Photography with you. Rachel is such a talented photographer. Make sure to check out her blog if you are in the market for a wedding or portrait photographer. She makes everyone feel so comfortable and at home, and she's a ton of fun to be around too.

Alyssa & Chris - I'm so glad I was able to be a part of your wedding and I'm so excited to hear about what's to come in your futures together. Congratulations again!















Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Featured...

The Bald Head Island Club was recently featured again on the Style Me Pretty blog, for the wedding of Jenny & Rob Johnson, held earlier this year. I absolutely love this wedding, from the gorgeous blues and greens in the hydrangeas, the unique use of a NYC Metro card as escort cards and the stunning room design and table displays by Salt Harbor Design. Jennnifer is just a classic beauty, and her sparkling glow absolutely lit up every one of the images captured by Joey & Jessica Photography. I'll let the wonderful ladies at Style Me Pretty fill you in on the rest of this beautiful wedding, Just click here.

PS - Here's a quick little peak for you shoe lovers. I do love me some Jimmy Choo. Seriously...

Monday, December 13, 2010

Crazy about Shoes...

Anyone who know's me, knows the infatuation I have for beautiful shoes. I have always been obsessed with shoes, from the days as a child when I'd sneak into my grandmother's shoe closet (who by the way, had and still has amazing taste in shoes). I was all of 3 1/2 feet tall, prancing around - yes, i pranced - on my grandparents hard wood floors in 3.5" heels.

Amazingly, that obsession for shoes has never faded and although there were some questionable choices in footware over the years, I will always save my few extra dollars for a great new pair of heels. Preferably sparkly, or adorned with something floral.

As the event and wedding coordinator for the Bald Head Island Club, I spend part of my day perousing various websites and blogs of photographers who I've come to respect over the years, searching for inspiration and picking up on new trends. And inevitably, some of my favorite images turn out to be the shoe shots... I'm sure you've seen them:

Image Created by the amazing Jose Villa

Image Created by the uber talented Jasmine Star
Image Created by the amazing Jose Villa
Image Created by the uber talented Jasmine Star

Image Created by the delightful Jenny Sun


I just can't get enough of them. ANYWAY... the only thing better than oogling at all the beautiful selections for wedding shoes  is the idea that I could design my own pair of wedding shoes. Pulling together all of the very best in bling and fashion and chic attire I've seen over the years. Ok, I may need to tone it down some.

What's my point? I recently discovered Milk & Honey Shoes, a custom shoe design company, geared specifically for brides and bridesmaids and I just had to share. I mean how many gorgeous shoes have you seen while scouring the various wedding blogs and websites? And how many times did you say to yourself  "I have to have those!" ?? One too many times I say. So why not design your very own pair for that oh so special of days?

You can go online now, pick from a wide variety of silhouettes, colors, heel heighth, embelishments, sizes, materials and more. And even if you're not getting married - it's a ton of fun

Happy Monday and happy shoe shopping!

Monday, December 6, 2010

Wedding Day Keepsakes...

Most brides will tell you, your wedding day flies by in a flash. But there are a ton of ways to help keep it close to you over the months and years to follow. I suggest making a keepsake box with all the little details and trinkets to help remind you of your special day. Fill it with photographs, invite cards and escort cards. Favors, a dried bouquet or boutinneire, a copy of your vows and perhaps the notes you and your "soon-to-be" wrote to each other the morning of.

Trust me, years from now, when you're describing your wedding day to your daughter or future daughter in law, it will be nice to have a little treasure chest of memories to pull out and share.

I just saw this cute idea for a keepsake and thought I'd pass it on. It's a personalized hanger designed with your future "Mrs." name to hang and display your wedding gown from. How cute is this!?


The designer, lilafrances, can be found on Etsy.com and this precious image was captured by Chelsea Nicole Photography.  

Enjoy!  

Friday, December 3, 2010

How to choose a wedding photographer

When you're planning a wedding, you want everything to be perfect. The flowers, the cake, fhe food, the lighting, the DRESS! But in the end, it flies by much too quickly. Months after your wedding, you'll find yourself reliving the moments in your head, over and over. And what better way to do that then with the images captured by your tireless, inventive, creative, magical Photographer!

Photo by Jose Villa

Choosing the right photographer to capture all those precious moments of your special day is a big decision. You should really take the time to research your options to make sure the photographer you choose really understands what you're looking for. I've spent years working with wedding photographers, so I thought I'd share some tips on how to select the right wedding photographer with you all:


1. Consistency: Any photographer who's been in business long enough will hopefully have 1 good day = 1 good album to show you. Ask to see others. Make sure they are consistently producing quality imagery. Don't just take their word for it.
Photo by Anne McGowan

2. Diversity: Your wedding day will contain a slew of challenges and opportunities for your photographer. Will it be inside or outside? Or both? Daytime or Night? Large bridal party or small? Will they need to bring a flash or can they rely on the natural, available light? Every wedding is different and therefore, your photographer should be prepared for every possible scenario. Make sure they're comfortable with that and make sure you've seen a few examples of their work in each of these scenarios.

Photo by Jim Garner

3. Comfortability: Some of the world's greatest photographers are masters at making their client - you the bride and groom, feel comfortable having their pictures taken. This is not an easy feat to accomplish but the resulting images appear more real and true to your personalities. A really great photographer will take the time to get to know you, starting with your first introduction, and engagement shoot and right up to the big day. I have many photographer friends who end up becoming very good friends with their clients and continue their relationships even after the wedding. Think about it, would you rather have a good friend or a complete stranger taking your pictures on your wedding day??

Photo by Jasmine Star

4. Creativity: Of course you're going to want some of the old traditional family portrait style images on your wedding day as well as all the various combinations with you and your fiance, your bridal party and more. But you're also going to want to have your photographer get a little creative. Take a look through their sample albums and take notice of the images that stand out for you. First of all, were there any? Were there a ton? Is their creative range diverse and does their style match yours?

Photo by Yervant

5. Style: Style is important and probably the easiest concept to identify when comparing various photographers. If their images appeal to you, if  their contrasting use of light and dark in their images stands out, if you find it hard to turn away or can't wait to see the next image in an album - than you are in good company. Finding a good photographer is a lot like finding your favorite new pair of shoes. You want them to stand out with their brilliance but also fit like they were made specifically for you.


6. Timing: Every photographer is different. Some like to spend 5 minutes or so, setting up a shot. Some just want to photograph the moments as they occur. Some want 3-4 hours with a couple while others only need 20 minutes or so. Make sure they know what it is you want. The easiest thing to do is to give them a list of the various combinations you want them to include. Make sure you both understand what your expectations are and provide them with a schedule for the big day.



Lastly, when you have selected your photographer - make sure to give them a little flexibility and creative time.  Those just may be the images that surprise you. And have FUN! Hope this helps someone!